Are you doing everything efficiently?

Eating junk food in an immaculately dressed plate.Sitting in the right posture to binge watch Netflix..Keeping your phone at the right eye distance to scrolling Instagram indefinitely. Sounds weird right?An odd combination of doing the wrong things in an efficient...

Did someone else hurt you?

Someone spoke disrespectfully.They were rude and mean.More so, they didn’t even realise what they did.. And we felt hurt.Not just when they said what they said.But repeatedly after that, thinking of it.However, whatever they said, they said it just once.The playing of...

Whom should you spend your time with?

We are drawn towards people that have the same points of view as us.They make us feel comfortable.They make us feel safe.Our worldviews, our belief systems, our values are held intact. However, they don’t make us grow.They simply validate our existing cocoon of...

How (not) to change the world

You are irritated by the behaviour of others.It frustrates you..And they don’t even realise it. So to teach them a lesson, you do the same thing to them.Only, that it does not change them.They do not see their fault through your actions.There now remains no difference...

The best way to have a conversation

You want your point to be heard. After all, you are right. The other person also believes the same. The reality is that both of you are right. With a different lens to view the world.  The best way to win the conversation, then, is to listen to them. It is in...

Why are we offended by the success of others?

Your colleagues are doing better than you.The classmate who flunked in school is doing better.Everyone’s life seems sorted, other than your own. And all this makes you worried.Perhaps jealous of their success. But why are we jealous of it?Because we are not focused on...