The way you do the small things 

Each time I interview people, we have the office boy come in and ask for tea or coffee.  When it is served, I look for the response No thank you? Thank you? Thank you Bhaiya (or equivalent)? Tells me something about the person.  —- I play a sadist game...

I am cheating on my wife

The world has a very convenient definition of cheating, based on a highly misplaced sense of morality.  If you are physically or emotionally involved with a person outside of your current relationship – that’s cheating.  Strangely enough, the...

IQ

Vidur loves to build stuff. Elements for his own world. Rockets, aliens, monsters, zoo, farms.  And when he does, he forgets everything else. He immerses himself. It doesn’t matter what’s happening around him at that moment.  Unfortunately, as he...

Your reality 

I fear failure  It took me a long while to realize how wrong this statement is. It makes it sound as if failure is a thing. Something that exists. Something that can be felt or experienced.  We don’t fear failure.  We fear the reaction of people...