The ONE thing

We may have a great job.Or an envious education. Perhaps we are settled as per the definition of the world.Yet, we feel something is missing. There is a hole within us that none of the external things are able to fulfil. What if we asked ourselves, “What is the one...

Confused between two options

We have two colleges to pick from.Two career options to choose.Two different solutions to a problem. Which one should you pick, when both seem to be conflicting choices? The one that brings more pain in the short term. No one knows how a decision would turn out to be...

The five levels of happiness

Happiness is not short term. Eating chocolate.Scrolling right before sleeping and after waking up.Binge-watching. They all satisfy a dopamine urge; they don’t make us happy.  In the long-term, doing these consistently makes us miserable. To check if something...

Planning without a plan

Having no plan in life and being okay is a great place to be. This, however, does not apply to our days. It’s fine to not know what life would look like in five years.It’s not fine to not know what our day would look like. “Take care of the day and the decade falls...

Scared of fear?

Everyone has fears. Even the ones who appear fearless.Being fearless isn’t about not feeling any fear. It is about knowing that no matter what the fear is, you have the courage to face it. Dealing with fears is the real courage. Being fearless is embracing...