The best way to have a conversation

You want your point to be heard. After all, you are right. The other person also believes the same. The reality is that both of you are right. With a different lens to view the world.  The best way to win the conversation, then, is to listen to them. It is in...

Why are we offended by the success of others?

Your colleagues are doing better than you.The classmate who flunked in school is doing better.Everyone’s life seems sorted, other than your own. And all this makes you worried.Perhaps jealous of their success. But why are we jealous of it?Because we are not focused on...

Are you afraid to fail?

We are starting something new.A new job. A new relationship. Moving to a new city.And we’re scared.We fear that we might fail. However, what is it that we are really afraid of? Failing, or what will people think of us once we fail?  All of us fail.All of us are...

What should we look for in a job?

In a job, we often ask ourselves such questionsWhat do I want?Why am I not being given what I was promised?What is it that I like doing? Essentially we want our needs to be attended to, while in a job.. However, no company does anything for us, whatever they do is for...

Scared of making the wrong decision?

What should I do in my life?How to know what is right for me?What if I make the wrong decision? When we are thinking about decisions in our 20’s, no decision is a bad decision. You are so early in the game that your first steps won’t determine your final destination....

Don’t assume; ASK!

When something doesn’t go the way we wanted it to, our brain goes into default mode of imagining the worst case scenario. They’re not acting the way they should.They don’t like me.They must think I am useless.  But what if this imagined world is just that....