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You are going through a tough time.
Unable to think.
Or move forward.

And that is starting to reflect on your relationship with others.

Here’s what might help: EVERYONE is carrying a heavy load. Everyone. Some show, some don’t. But there ain’t anyone who doesn’t have that.

Kindness isn’t reserved for you when you are going through a tough time. It is often reserved for you when you are going through a tough time and still choose to be kind. Because we’re all in this together :)

Is your fear of embarrassing yourself.

Not your parents.
Not your friends.
Also, not your former colleagues.

Just you.

Your biggest hurdle to growth is what you would think of yourself.
Your biggest reason of growth is what you think of yourself.
The way you direct what you think of yourself, is what will truly create your hurdle or your growth.

The past was bitter.
Very bitter.
It almost killed you.

But you know what? You can actually change your past.

By changing the meaning of those painful memories.
By choosing to define those memories in the way you want to define them.
By choosing to live in the present by a version of the past that suits you, not the one that kills you.

The past is an option. Something that needs to be carried to the future :)

A legacy all parents must give to their kids.

Not money.
Not facilities.
Not even a lot of time.

Rather encouragement, because that fills up their mind for the rest of their lives.

Encouragement is the fuel that fills up all wells of an individual when grown up, even when they are still a kid.

But what you can do is listen.

Listen to those who ask you questions.
Listen to yourself.
Listen to everything that is being said.
And what is not said.

No one knows all the answers. But what we certainly know is to get to a process of getting there. By showing up to listen. And caring. And that’s the best thing we could do, to get to an answer.

I don’t know what’s next.

No next move.
No next milestone.
Certainly no next goal.

Just the process.
Show up every day.
Get better with quality every single day.

And the results will eventually show you what’s next.

Nothing’s next. Just the next process.

There is very little time to spend with your parents.
There is very little time to hang around with friends.
There is very little time to spend with your spouse.

Your work is NOT your life. It does not deserve your 110% of your life.

Spend time with things that matter. Because one day things that matter won’t be there, to spend time with.

Get to know yourself better.
Fall in love with yourself.
Give yourself the attention you give to others.

Being surrounded by people is good. Just that it isn’t the basis of your existence.
However, there is no basis of your existence if you do not spend time with yourself.

You don’t need more people.
You just need one person – who can give you all that you deserve.

Sometimes the same content I post is packaged differently – for different audience.

Because, I want to serve my audience better.

Just like our teachers in nursery knew sentences.
However, they taught us through pictures and letters.

The truth is, to know is not enough.
To be able to unlearn what you know, and then to give what is needed, is the right way.

Everyone has problems at work.

Even those who love their work.

The thing worth finding isn’t a problem-free job. The thing worth finding is a problem that you’d want to sign up for.