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Most sports are played in the mind, and not so much on the field.

The fittest people are fit because they talk to their mind daily to go work out, irrespective of the chills outside.

The stories we are living today are the result of stories our mind has been telling ourselves.

Most successful people feel successful not by the things they own, rather by the empires of the mind.

The most powerful training happens in our minds.

The friend who quit trying after failing once.
The colleague who gave up because they were tired of being tired.
The super successful people in school whom we’ve forgotten

We don’t remember any one of them anymore.

Because we don’t remember people by what they have achieved, we remember people by their relentless hard work.

We don’t remember people for their past, we remember them for what their present actions are.

We don’t remember people for failing, we remember them for not giving up after failing.

The best thing about hard work is it equally works hard for us.

Finding our passion isn’t a destination to reach.

It is a journey to go through, almost every day.

Doing jobs that others are not willing to do.
Reaching out to people, which may not make sense to others.
Pursuing an online course just because it sparks our curiosity.

The way we find our passion evolves throughout our lives, however, what remains constant is not caring about what others are thinking of us.

We find ourselves when we hide ourselves from the judgement of others. 

We may have a great job.
Or an envious education.

Perhaps we are settled as per the definition of the world.
Yet, we feel something is missing.

There is a hole within us that none of the external things are able to fulfil.

What if we asked ourselves, “What is the one thing I want right now”?
Not five, not three, just one; and then chase it. 

It could be money, or work life balance, or more family time.

There is no right or wrong; there is just one inherent need that we all must fulfil. 

If we fulfil that one need, we will feel at peace with ourselves.

When we want everything, we end up with nothing.
When we optimise for one thing, almost everything takes care of itself.

We have two colleges to pick from.
Two career options to choose.
Two different solutions to a problem.

Which one should you pick, when both seem to be conflicting choices?

The one that brings more pain in the short term.

No one knows how a decision would turn out to be prior to making it.

The only thing we do know that the harder path is the one where the pot of gold most likely lies.

Happiness is not short term.

Eating chocolate.
Scrolling right before sleeping and after waking up.
Binge-watching.

They all satisfy a dopamine urge; they don’t make us happy. 

In the long-term, doing these consistently makes us miserable.

To check if something makes us truly happy, the real introspection is to go for five levels of happiness. 

What will happen if I do this?
And then?
And then?
After that?
Then?

It’ll give perspective and wisdom to make wiser choices.

Anything that makes us happy now and lousy later is a distraction disguised as happiness.

Having no plan in life and being okay is a great place to be.

This, however, does not apply to our days.

It’s fine to not know what life would look like in five years.
It’s not fine to not know what our day would look like.

“Take care of the day and the decade falls into place.”

– James Clear

Everyone has fears. Even the ones who appear fearless.
Being fearless isn’t about not feeling any fear.

It is about knowing that no matter what the fear is, you have the courage to face it.

Dealing with fears is the real courage.

Being fearless is embracing fear. 

It’s not hard to get on to a stage and speak.
It’s not hard to open your phone, hit record, and post a reel.
It’s not hard to write a cold email to someone in power.

We feel they are hard things because that is how we have convinced ourselves.

That is how we have convinced ourselves.

The hardest thing in the world is to convince ourselves.
The world will, by default, follow.

A friend of yours got married at “the right time”.
Another one got settled abroad.
The neighbour spends weekends relaxing and weekdays grinding. 

The world is out there chasing the obvious things.
Settle down quickly. 

However, if you chase what everyone else is chasing, you will end up with what everyone else does. 

Chasing something that does not excite us leaves us with a life that does not excite us.

Chasing something because there is no other option visible leaves us with no other options visible.

The obvious way to beat the resistance is to resist the obvious.

How will we ever know what we could do if we are always entangled with what the world does?