A movie that you fell completely in love with the first time you watched it?
It was The Dark Knight for me!
The script, the music, the characters — everything was on point and it blew my mind away!
I loved it so much that I watched it again. And again. And again!
By the time I was watching it for the 6th or 7th time, I started noticing its flaws.
I had spent so much time with it, that I couldn’t help but notice its slips.
Yet, it remains my all-time favourite movie.
I chose to ignore the slips because what I experienced when I saw the movie was way too wonderful an experience!
What else works like movies?
People!
The more time you spend with people, the more flaws you see!
Instead, why not shift the focus on how you feel when you are with them?
You are absolutely correct but this happens to person like me.why? One thing i know that i am emotionally weak person,bad with relationships and making friends. I am confused 22 yrs old boy. Even though at first contact I feel connected with people but slowly-slowly becomes disconnected with them. and they started judging me or it is just my mind.
It is so relatable Sahil. I too face the same issue. In fact in some cases when I don’t want to confront reality thinking someone I’m on decent terms with doesn’t fight as bitterly for me as I have seen people do. That’s why I lose my self worth yet once again. Then I distance myself. Self sabotage. I guess I’m ashamed of myself.