Does the source of feedback make it irrelevant?

Imagine You, a male, are shouting at your wife/girlfriend in the middle of the market. Almost getting physically abusive. An observer, draws the courage to come up to you and says, “you do know you should be respectful towards women?” At that moment, it...

Success

Most of us think of success as relative. Am I more successful than him? Does she have more fame than me? What do I need to do to become wealthier than him? Success isn’t relative Achievement is And we confuse success with achievement Success is absolute –...

Just missed equals more regret

Student A and Student B give an entrance exam Student A scores 93% Student B scores 96% The cutoff of the exam is 98% Who do you think will feel worse at not making it? Most of us will say Student B When “technically” both should feel worse equally Both...

What you say doesn’t matter?

It doesn’t matter what you say, people will understand it in their context, through their lens, colored by their biases, driven by their experiences That could lead to the false conclusion – “why does it even matter what I say?” Or the better...