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Our routine sets our habits. 

Our habits determine our experiences. 

Our experiences determine our emotional state. 

Our emotional state determines everything.

Tomorrow – A mythical land where 99% of all human productivity, motivation and achievement is stored :))

You DO NOT need to set up your life before you are 30.

Life is not a scripted game.
Things won’t go as you planned and adding a deadline will not necessarily help.

Take your time.
Explore.

You have time.

Our mind craves distraction because we make it a forbidden fruit.

Do the opposite.
Set up time to waste time.

I have 3 slots in a day, of 30 mins each – where I waste time.

IG reels, YT shorts, whatever I fancy.

My mind looks forward to it, knows it is coming, and thus doesn’t crave for it randomly!

Works like a charm.

We were hiring for a software engineer at nearbuy (my previous startup).

The candidate we really liked was working at one of the IT giants for the past 3 years.

His salary was 4.2L p.a.

The HR manager asked, “how much should we pay him?”
“Why are you even asking?”

“As per the salary benchmarking we have, his salary should be 14.5L. That would mean a 3X jump on his current salary.”
“And why is that a problem? How does his current salary dictate what he gets paid in a role that he’s qualified for?”

“Because it’s not market practice.”

I never really understood this phenomena of asking for previous payslips, by companies.

To me, it is lazy and smells of an non-existent process to determine salaries in an objective manner.

We made the offer to the candidate.
He called assuming it was a typo.
He thought we were making a 4.5L offer :)

It was cute, and sad, at the same time.
We told him that the offer was indeed 14.5L

We upheld a process that worked for us.
He upheld his pride.

Win-win.

Got asked this simple yet powerful question:

“Why is it wrong to want to live a comfortable and secure life? Why does the world always project taking risks and constantly challenging yourself as the noble thing to do?”

There is no noble way to live life. No right/wrong. 

However…here is what is wrong. 

To make comfortable/secure choices but desire the outcomes that come from challenging yourself, by risking it. 

If you invested in FDs but desire the returns of stocks – that’s wrong. 

If you sit for placements, but desire the returns of a successful startup – that’s wrong. 

If you had kids, but desire the freedom of a childless couple – that’s wrong. 

If you just did what you were told to, but desire the growth of your colleague who took initiative – that’s wrong. 

If you played it safe, but desire the outcomes of risk – that’s wrong. 

“In the pursuit of comfort, don’t desire the rewards of risk. Embrace your choices, for in them lies the essence of your journey.”

Just saw a video from 1993 where people were apprehensive about using credit cards.
That was just 30 years ago!

People will always struggle to imagine the future. 

Imagine what all will be ‘wasn’t this obvious’ in 30 years from now?

My take:

– Blockchain 

– Space travel 

– Virtual worlds

– No classrooms 

– Knowledge digital uploads

– Lived for others

– Did not listen

– Feared till death

– Never loved herself

– Believed everyone else

– I wish I

– Why always me

No one is truly your friend until they have seen the worst of you and still stayed.

I have always found teacher-student conversations fascinating.
No, not the ones in school :))

The ones where there is no school, there is no class, there is no curriculum. 

There is simply curiosity.
From both sides. 

Find that teacher, by becoming that student. 

Because the best teachers are not born.
Their best is brought to the surface by their students.