Temporary is good

The worst thing that would change your life forever isn’t the worst thing.  Like every good thing that doesn’t make us excited forever, so do the bad things lose their power over time. Time is not only a great healer, it also makes you aware of better...

Chasing validation

The cool kid will always have opinions of you.The boring kid within you will ache to do anything to get their validation.It is going to be fascinating to leave who you are and be what they are. Except, that isn’t success.If changing yourself could bring you...

Focus, and lack of it

Focus is something we choose for our own selves. For the life that we have chosen. Our career. Focus makes us accountable.  But there is another perk of that focus: The right kind of focus leads us to stop focusing on what others are doing wrong, and start...

The lie we were told as kids

Most of us had a childhood of competing with others.Get more marks than your competitor.Higher rank.Go to a better college than them. These were (and unfortunately still are) the parameters that defined success for us as kids. Except: Everyone is running their own...

Self love is not selfishness

When we were growing up, we were never taught self love. More than anything else, we were sadly made to feel guilty if we didn’t make others a priority. This conditioning led to a habit where we have forgotten how to love ourselves. If only we realised that the best...

“Nothing” is powerful

Of the many lies we were sold as kids (and upon growing up), this one always triumphs: Something is better than nothing.Selling a part of your soul is better than your soul making no money. Except that when we are empty, we feel our truest emotions. It is in solitude...