Baggage of experience

We keep running after work experience.  We think it will make us better at what we do.But experience comes with its own baggage — a blind belief that what we know is what is right. However, it is the maturity of realising that we are constantly learning, that...

Is it even trust?

We have this habit of checking the strength of our relationships, every now and then.”Let’s see if they can be trusted.” The minute we test it, we break it.It is either earned or established through conduct.It’s not to be tested. To test trust,...

Self-imposed feelings

There is always a reason behind how we feel.  If the reason for that feeling is someone else, why blame ourselves?It will pass.  If we are the reason, why blame someone else?It’s time to fix it. The key is to find the source. Our feelings are...

Who will you be tomorrow?

It’s unfair to compare our progress with someone who is just starting out, and feel good about ourselves.  Just like it is unfair to compare ourselves with someone who has been at it longer than us, and feel bad about ourselves. Different durations....

You will constantly be judged

Your college.Your job.Your car.Your phone.Your clothes.Your choices.  Remember that people judge because they want to feel good about themselves.It has nothing to do with you.It is their insecurity.

5 types of toxic people to avoid

1) The Energy Drainer:  You feel tense and uneasy after each interaction with them. 2) The Pessimist:  They have a negative outlook of the world.Always try to talk you out of your dreams. 3) The Criticizer:  They don’t support you in your...