Regret

There is a way to avoid failures and rejections altogether. By not trying in the first place. The result: no failure, no rejection.  And lifelong regret. Failure is an answer. Rejection is an answer. Regret is a lifelong question you will never have an answer...

Do we love ourselves?

If we truly love someone, we would never call them a failure. No matter how they had tanked at something they were enthusiastic about. We would rather appreciate them for the relentless effort they made, how they overcame their fears, and the fact that they shipped...

Unable to move on?

“I want to move on. Want to forgive them. However, I don’t want them back in my life. Is that possible?” After career advice, this is the most frequently asked question I get. Most people believe if they forgive someone, it is also permission for them to come back in...

Feeling helpless in front of Karma?

What’s Karma? It is the concept that we reap what we sow. Our past determines our present. What we see today is as a result of what we did in the past. And that could be a helpless feeling. I can’t change my past. So that means, I cannot change what is happening to...

“But I have already spent so much time doing this”

You do not like your job. And you want to change it. But you have spent years doing it. Won’t all of that go to waste? That isn’t the right question to ask. Instead the right question is: “If I don’t make the move I want to make, what about the years ahead that would...

Which course to pursue?

Unless highly technical, the course you pursue doesn’t make much difference. What makes all the difference is where you pursue it from. The people you are surrounded with. The instructors that train you. The conversations you have. The different mindsets you are...