Circumstances don’t cause pain

You felt intense pain.You wanted to escape.It really hurt.  And in all that, it was easy to blame circumstances.Except that circumstances were not to be blamed.  If circumstances brought us pain, how is it that different people handle their pain...

The three-step formula to learn anything

Here’s a small yet effective three-step formula to learn anything. Observe: When we see others doing something, our brain creates a picture of it.  Do: Execution is the mother of motivation.  Teach: The teacher never forgets. Sharing what you have is the...

The secret to speaking effectively

Thoughts occur at rattling speed.  We can’t speak clearly.We fumble, stammer or ramble.  Is this what happens when you start presenting your point of view?  Could be an interview.An office presentation.A family gathering.  Here is what helps to...

Want to be loved unconditionally?

We want to be accepted for who we are.To be loved despite our flaws.To be loved unconditionally by everyone – partners, friends, family.  But do we offer them unconditional love?Or does our love come with a bag full of conditions?  How will we ever...

There’s no one like you!

Why do we make kids mug up information?What is the outcome of this?  What if we taught them the uniqueness they possess?That there is sheer joy in being themselves without any pressure.That there is a brilliant opportunity of creating anything we want.  That...

A relationship did not work out?

You started something new.You were not treated well.Promises were broken.And sooner than you knew, you were asked to leave.For no fault of yours.  Could happen in a professional relationship.Could happen even in a personal relationship.  As difficult as it...