Who should you spend your time with?

We are drawn towards people that have the same points of view as us.They make us feel comfortable.They make us feel safe.Our worldviews, our belief systems, our values are held intact. However, they don’t make us grow.They simply validate our existing cocoon of...

Did someone else hurt you?

Someone spoke disrespectfully.They were rude and mean.More so, they didn’t even realise what they did. And we felt hurt.Not just when they said what they said.But repeatedly after that, thinking of it.However, they only said it once.The playing of that audio and video...

Unable to reach your goals?

You’ve been trying too hard.Days, weeks, and months – relentlessly.Still you’re not getting the results you want. Sounds familiar?Is every repeated effort of yours a replica of the last effort? What if you tried different things this time? Not getting results doesn’t...

How to get people’s attention

There’s a group meeting. And you want to share your point. However, no one really listens. It’s just an endless discussion. In such times, it’s fun and intriguing how the habit of Hollywood actor, Keanu Reeves, comes to help.  Whenever someone else is speaking,...

The right thing to teach our kids

Don’t laugh too hard.Stop doing that.Don’t behave like that.Talk like that. Be this way. We’re always telling our kids what they should and shouldn’t do. Their life becomes a rulebook instead of a blank slate with infinite possibilities. What if we taught our kids how...

How to ask for help

You want a college senior’s help.Or you want to reach out to a founder to seek their input on your business idea.Maybe you want to reach out to someone experienced for just guidance.  And quite often, we think we do not have anything to offer in return.But that’s...