Why do most problems in life occur?

Most of life’s problems are a result of our inability to have an honest and objective conversation with our own selves. What do I want?What I don’t want?How can I play with my strengths?How can I handle my weaknesses to not let interfere with what I want? As we...

Do you control your mind, or the mind controls you?

To find out who controls you, ask who it is that you can’t speak against. For most of us – it is our mind! The mind is a wonderful servant. And a terrible master.It will nudge you to send that angry email, eat that dessert, participate in that gossip, or even...

No one’s watching!

What we do when no one is looking is who we are.That is the person others will get to see when they are looking. Nothing we do in public is random.All of it is a result of what we do when we are alone. If you are happy alone, the world sees you as a happy person.If...

Expectations vs Reality in 20s

No one expects you to be rich in your 20s. So don’t act like you are rich. Live like a pauper.Invest any and every money you get.Avoid loans.Don’t buy a house.Don’t buy things that you think will make people like you more. Those people are not worth pleasing! When you...

The truth about free time

It is interesting how ‘free time’ is looked down upon when you are young and is perhaps the only thing worth chasing as you get old. When you are young, you want to hustle hard. Only to realize a couple of years later that the hustle makes sense only if you have free...

Who gets to win in life?

In life, it is not the most genetically gifted person or the one with the most potential who wins. It’s the person with perseverance that wins. Everyone is born with gifts.That, however, doesn’t make them gifted. It is those who make use of their gifts, who get to...