How to find a job?

There are two ways to it: One: Apply for job portals. Wait for openings. Wait for callbacks. Basically wait for your luck to someday open up. Two: Create your job. Figure out what you want to work on. Start working on that, before you have a job. Then apply for...

Toxic parents

Sometimes our parents could be one, for no fault of theirs. How to deal with them? 1. Recognise that they want the same things from life as you do. 2. Do not consider their emotional blackmail as truth. It isn’t. 3. Get financially independent. And move out....

Curiosity

Curiosity is good, if you ask the right questions. If you ask the wrong questions, it is designed to trigger you. Why are they not nice to me?Why am I so dumb?Why do I need to work so hard to be liked by others? Those are the incorrect questions. What if you ask: How...

Curiosity

Curiosity is good, if you ask the right questions. If you ask the wrong questions, it is designed to trigger you. Why are they not nice to me?Why am I so dumb?Why do I need to work so hard to be liked by others? Those are the incorrect questions. What if you ask: How...

I was lost…

I had planned my life for the last 10 years, and I was still lost at 24. The love of my life (Astrophysics) wasn’t the happiness of my life. That was sad. And even relieving. Today, almost two decades later, I can say with utmost certainty, that wherever you are in...

No one

When I returned from the US after dropping out of my PhD, almost everyone called it an incorrect decision. I was supposed to solve our financial problems. I was supposed to land on Mars because that’s what I had been dreaming of, for years. I was supposed to be happy...