Routine and self respect

An underrated impact of having a routine is self respect. Think of all the promises you made to yourself and broke. And what it did subconsciously to your self respect. And think of all the promises you made and kept. And how that made you feel you could trust...

Defining success

Chasing worldly success is illusive. What looks like success to us doesn’t match with others. Setting our own standards of success, irrespective of the noises, is real success. Staying true to those standards is getting truly successful. Everyone has their own metric...

Happiness is an inside job

Our friends and family. Our colleagues. Our acquaintances on social media. We love to keep everyone happy. If they aren’t happy, that’s because of us. “I should not have said that. I am not balancing work and family. I am responsible for their sadness.” Except,...

It’s not hard!

It’s not hard to get on to a stage and speak. It’s not hard to open your phone, hit record, and post a reel. It’s not hard to write a cold email to someone in power. We feel they are hard things because that is how we have convinced ourselves. That is how we have...

The definition of happiness

Happiness is our nature as kids. If we enjoy something, we are in a state of flow doing it. If we don’t, we’ll cry our hearts out to make sure we don’t do it. And then, we grow up. Unfortunately. And forget to make our happiness a priority. We pursue courses that our...