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It is simple. I do not deal with them.

If someone says something that seems reasonable, I respond. Sometimes even have back-to-back conversations.

If someone says something that is not true, I simply have fun. By not responding most of the times :)

Win-win.

The truth is, if you truly know yourself, no one can touch you. If you are at peace with who you are, external chaos is merely a chatter. If you are aware of your qualities as well as disadvantages, you have an unfair advantage that most people don’t have. And that’s the most powerful thing.

One of the biggest mistakes Indian parents make is to not teach us accountability at an early age, and then suddenly make us responsible for all our actions.

It is okay for the kid to know that if they stumbled and fell on the floor, the floor is not to be beaten. It is the kid that needs to learn how to walk properly.

But, we can talk about how our parents screwed up, or take responsibility to make everyone around us accountable.

A not so good past is a chance to create a so-good future!

Binge watching is not relaxing you. It is numbing you.

\Your mind is not thinking. It is consuming.

Your eyes are not calm. They are wide open.

You are not active. Your body is decaying gradually.

If there is only one benefit of binge-watching, it is the awareness of the zero benefits it brings.

How many times do you create an excuse, even when the choice is always with you?

You have the choice to push a little harder.
Or the choice to say a polite no.
Or the choice to have a conversation and make things easier for everyone.

Even when you are making an excuse, you are still making a choice.

Excuses exclaim, choices cheer us up!

Spend more time appreciating others than you spend on waiting for others to appreciate you.

Did you know that when you appreciate others for what they do when they are not around, it travels to them quicker than you think?

Did you know that when you appreciate others for what they do in front of them, their self confidence rises?

And when you do both of these, you will stop feeling the craving for others to appreciate you!

Giving away appreciation gives away the need to have it. And that’s beautiful.

You will learn your most valuable lessons from committing the very same mistakes you knew you should have avoided.

Of course, you know what to avoid.

But if you have fallen into the trap of still committing that mistake, you are now so rich in wisdom that no bang on the head can wash it away.

As much as you seek wisdom, so does wisdom seek you :)

If you fall down from a high rise building, no matter if you are a good person or not, you will die. That is the law of Physics – law of gravity.

So is another law of Physics – law of energy.
Which is: In order to give energy, you have to gain energy.
In conversations.
In work.
In life.

Once you understand and start living your life from law of energy, life changes in a manner you had never imagined!
Because now you operate with science, instead of defying against it!

Energy is the place where humans must spend their energy on!

The most beautiful thing about anger or any negative emotion is, that the moment you become aware of them, they vanish!
Yet we are wanting for some external force to kill it over without being aware of it in the first place!

Awareness curses negativity.
Awareness ceases existence.
Awareness creates emotion you want to live with.

And that’s beautiful!!

Anger’s purpose is not to fix the unfulfilled need within you.
It is simply to make you aware that there is an unfulfilled need within you.

The course you study doesn’t determine your education. Your surrounding does.

If you are studying your favourite stream but are in a college that does not help you hang out with the best peers, or you do not feel motivated, or the environment makes you coast, then the stream of your choice will also make you miserable.

To be surrounded by driven, energetic people who are challenging themselves daily, will make sure you do your own epic shit in your own world, even if for the moment you are not pursuing your favourite stream.

You don’t need a name.
Your actions have already determined who you are.

The work you do.
The work you don’t do.
The excuses you choose not to make because you are responsible.

Over time, every action and every lack of action allows people to know even in silence, the person behind it.

It is up to us, to decide what they choose to think of us.
Our silent actions speak louder than our planned words.