“But I have already spent so much time doing this”

You do not like your job.And you want to change it.But you have spent years doing it. Won’t all of that go to waste? That isn’t the right question to ask. Instead the right question is: “If I don’t make the move I want to make, what about the years ahead that would be...

Feeling helpless in front of Karma?

What’s Karma? It is the concept that we reap what we sow. Our past determines our present.What we see today is as a result of what we did in the past.And that could be a helpless feeling. I can’t change my past. So that means, I cannot change what is happening to me....

When do we earn trust?

When are the times that trust is earned?When we are supposed to show up, and we do? Or instead – when there’s tension, uncertainty, ambiguity and we aren’t expected to show up? Trust is earned when no one trusts us to show up and yet we...

Is your kindness a problem?

You’ve been kind to people.And some have betrayed you. You’ve been giving 100% of yourself.And some people have broken your trust. Should you give up your kindness? No. Maybe the thing to give up is that relationship. Kindness didn’t cause you pain.The person...

What could be the best advice?

We’re struggling hard. To find the right piece of advice.To find that one person who will give it to us. However, we are always giving advice to others.  Telling them what to do.What not to do.How to think. What if we gave that advice to ourselves?What if we...

Are you an influencer?

We are caught up in the influencer race.Of more likes, comments and followers. A hundred thousand.Five hundred thousand.Millions of them. And we do not think of ourselves as an influencer, until these numbers do not show. However, we become an Influencer not by the...