Fixing all our relationships

We all work really hard on all our relationships. Trying to show them we careTrying to make sure they don’t get hurtTrying super hard that they don’t misunderstand us. In my opinion, we don’t need to try as much hard. Simply knowing, that fixing your...

Skills we don’t think are skills

Skills we don’t think are skills but are most important skills: Being calmReally listening, with the intent to understand, not respondLearning to be aware of our emotionsTo forgive without receiving an apologyTo be a student forever What’s...

When a team member is acting out

It is easy to believe they do not have the best intents.Or they are trying to get out of their work. Maybe that’s true. Maybe it’s not. Maybe they just need some space. What I have learnt in 12+ years of building teams, is that if someone is acting out as...

To listen, and not react…

When we hear the beautiful advice of listening, most of us do not understand the implicit emotion that comes after it: you should NOT react. There is a difference between reacting and responding. When we react, we base our actions as a response of someone else’s...

You don’t lack motivation…

You don’t lack motivation, ever It is genuine interest in what you have to do, is missing. You will never be motivated to do something you don’t want to do. The question, then, is not to ask yourself: “How do I get motivated?”The question,...

How to get rich fast?

I get this question a lot. While there are not many concrete answers to this, it helps to remember that Warren Buffet acquired a huge part of his wealth after the age of 60. Being rich is often about patience and peace when others are losing because of quick bets....