A timeless advice for relationships

Ask. Don’t assume. What you assume may not be the truth.What is the truth may never cross your assumptions. Speaking solves problems that silence doesn’t. Because it wasn’t silence in the first place. It was assumption.

What kind of peace to aspire for?

It is easy to think of peace by distancing yourself from the world. But no matter how much you choose to distance yourself, you will again come back to the same place. Then what is the way to peace? To find it when there is chaos.To be okay with who you are (even...

98%

The other day someone played a rendition of Bella Ciao on my IG live.It was so succinct, that it was evident to me that he had worked super hard on getting this right. And it quite got me thinking. How easy it is, to give your 98%. Or 99%. Most people won’t even...

Stop doing these 3 things in your 20s

Focusing on settling down. You do NOT have to settle down by 24. Spend your 20s exploring. I am 42 and still not “settled”.Waiting for your friends to validate you. They may have different perspectives. And different places to reach. Love them and respect them in...

How to feel bad

How to feel bad 1. Seek validation 2. Don’t love yourself Sadly most of us are doing both without even being aware of it. Feeling bad is a plant we give growth to, through our own seeds of insecurity. Feeling good is the seed we can sow right away, through being...

18 Things that will change your life

There are no 18 things that will change your life. The ones who shared the list, are the things that changed their life. But for something to change your life, you have to do your things. Unless you figure out what actually changed your life, picking up from someone...