You want to pursue an art.
Maybe write, design or become a professional musician.
But your parents won’t let you.
That causes tension. Lack of communication. Anger and frustration.
And the belief that “getting there” or “doing something” will prove it to them.
However, parents don’t crave to be proven right.
They want the same things for us that we would want for ourselves. The path may be different.
What if we told them that the only thing you need from them is their support?
What if we got out of our own head and had that conversation from the heart?
We can’t convince our parents through things or actions.
Only difficult (and most important) conversations can.
This is exactly what i hope parents of Gen Z generation understands because, what we ever wanted is only support and give something back to them
This reminded me something Zakir khan once said
Toh Zakir Khan sahab ne kaha tha:
“Parents aap ke passion ke against nahi hain, WOH BAS AAPKO GAREEB NAHI DEKHNA CHAHTE !!!!”
Btw I completely agree with what you mentioned..
We need difficult conversations and people on both sides need to understand with open mind!!!