How we perceive English

English is not my first language. But I grew up at a time where English was considered the only way to be respected, acknowledged, or heard. Even though my parents worked really hard to send us to a lovely English medium school, it didn’t help me get better at the...

You don’t have to start big!

I was 21.Studying at Hindu College, Delhi University. Back then, everyone’s favourite drink on campus was Banta (also called nimbu soda or kancha bottle.) However, the seller’s setup at the time had a few shortcomings: Dirty hands.Glasses used again and again. I...

What defines you?

I was absolutely wrong about the world, while in school. I was the diligent, studious, and obedient kid.But there were kids around me who weren’t.And I looked down upon them. I thought those who smoke, drink, do not study and do not obey were evil people. I felt...

Choose your success

When I first met my wife, Ruchi, I thought she was someone I would never hang out with. I was very clear about what I wanted to do in life.She, instead, was going with the flow — no visible goals, no desire to control her life.The exact opposite of me! But as I got to...

Teaching Vidur about money

For the past 3 years, our (now) 12 year old son, Vidur, has been setting up a game stall at our society’s Diwali mela.  This year, he earned 12K in profit.And he can’t believe it! While his objective was to have fun, I had a selfish motive.To teach...

Reflection

I am staying at a wonderful place for a week and I am paying more than what I earned in the entire year, in my first job.  Am I surprised everyday at how far I have come?Yes!  Do I believe it’s all my doing?Not at all. It’s insane luck at play.  Does...