What’s the meaning of growing up

Growing up isn’t just about crossing numbers.Growing up is about learning to let go. Letting go when we’ve been betrayed.Not because what they did was right.Instead, because we do not wish to be stuck there. Because we don’t want to be a replica of them.Because we do...

What are we optimizing for?

If we are looking for a new job, what is the one thing we want? A great pay? An understanding boss? Work-life balance? Great learning? When we are starting up, what is the one thing we are optimizing for? Funding? Fame? A great team? Great culture? High growth? While...

Jealous of other people’s success?

You are jealous of how much they earn.The vacation they took.The home they bought. We are jealous of what others have and we don’t. And we tell ourselves, “If we somehow could get what they have, life would become better.”But that isn’t true. Because we don’t...

The biggest luxury of childhood

As a kid, we may not be given everything.Maybe we didn’t have all the love in the family.Maybe we did not go out like all other kids.Maybe we were denied that shiny lunchbox. However, what we got was something more special: the ability to appreciate everything.And...

Understanding that no one understands

When something bad happens, everyone says they’re in a lot of pain.However, this pain that you are going through — only you can truly feel it.No one else can. Only you know what’s going on with you.Everyone else sees the world through their own biased lens. It is your...

What is the biggest addiction?

Social media.Junk foodVideo gamesAlcoholDrugs Are these the biggest additions? We are not addicted to these things.We are addicted to the feelings that these things generate. And all addictions generate a feeling of comfort.Which makes us numb.  When we are...