I wish I would have….

Every time when we think,  “I wish I would have done that differently”, we are thinking about something we can’t change. What’s done has been done. No amount of thinking will change that. No amount of regret will change that. What we can change is what we do next. So,...

You’re wrong….

What do we say when we are disappointed in someone? “This isn’t what I wanted.” “Why don’t you work hard?” “Why didn’t you work longer?” “Couldn’t you be more diligent?” Has it worked? Does it work? I am sure, we all know the answer to it. Let’s try a different...

When you spend too much time with someone…

A movie that you fell completely in love with the first time you watched it? It was Dark Knight for me! The script, the music, the characters – everything was on point and it blew my mind away! I loved it so much, that I watched it again. And again. And again!...

If you’re feeling lost….!

What’s the one thing you would want, if you are lost somewhere? Most of us will have the same reply. We’d need a map. Except, a map would not help because you are lost and you don’t know where you are on the map. The same is true for life. When we are lost, we crave...

How do you really learn?

How many college lectures do I remember? Not many! If you ask me anything from those classes, how much would I be able to reproduce? Not much! It’s because the best learning comes from what happens outside the class. It comes when no one is teaching. It comes by...

What’s the most dangerous statement in the world?

“But I have already spent so much time on this. How can I leave it all?” This statement when thought out loud ignores everything. It ignores signals, it ignores intuition, it ignores advice and it ignores the truth. Think about it. Does it really matter how much time...