What’s worse than failure?

Regret will cause more pain than failure ever will.Failure will give you ways to succeed.Regret will give you compounding regret. With zero end to that downward spiral. You will never know how your decision would turn out, until you actually make that...

Showing up is hard

You will struggle to smile and show up. Show up anyway.It’s scary to show up on days you are scared. And scarred.However, it is only by showing up on those days that you tell your scars that your smile is bigger than the scares they give. Anyone can show up on a day...

When does courage show up?

Courage is not when you face what’s in front of you while being fully armed.Courage is when you face what’s in front of you knowing that you are weaker.Being prepared is not called courage. It’s planning. Courage shows up when the plan gives way.Courage shows up when...

Sad stories in 3 words

Lived for othersDid not listenFeared till deathNever loved herselfBelieved everyone elseI wish I…Why always me We create our stories. And then the stories create us.

Why do most problems in life occur?

Most of life’s problems are a result of our inability to have an honest and objective conversation with our own selves. What do I want?What I don’t want?How can I play with my strengths?How can I handle my weaknesses to not let interfere with what I want? As we...

Do you control your mind, or the mind controls you?

To find out who controls you, ask who it is that you can’t speak against. For most of us – it is our mind! The mind is a wonderful servant. And a terrible master.It will nudge you to send that angry email, eat that dessert, participate in that gossip, or even...