Bad people are not bad people

If we do not consume alcohol, our default response is to believe the ones consuming it are bad people. If we do not party on weekends, our default response is to believe the ones doing so are bad people. If we do not believe in relationships before marriage, our...

Feedback

It is easy to feel hurt. when someone gives you harsh feedback.   However, if you only focused on the feedback and not the tone of it, you would perhaps learn something new..  Don’t pay attention to the noise.Focus on the signal. There is always...

One habit with the biggest ROI

We all want to learn fast.Maximise our experience in the least possible time.And be able to tackle the right problems. Reading helps us do that. Not fiction.Instead psychology, human behaviour, history, biographies, self help. Not only will they help us use our time...

How to convince your parents

You want to explore.Your parents want you to settle down. No matter how much you try, things aren’t moving.. However, here’s a fact:  Our parents want exactly the same thing as we do: our happiness.Their proposed path may be different; intentions aren’t. If we...

Gratification needn’t be instant

The world runs on instant gratification today.The instant like, the instant comment, the instant live.  However, this quick dopamine boost does more harm than good. The reality is, all good things take time and effort. True love, true relationships, true...

Making the right decision

You want to pick designing after engineering.Maybe go for a self-financed trip for six months.Perhaps quit graduation and get a full-time job in photography. All these are not the conventional paths. But all these are the paths that seek your attention. Should you...