Why aren’t we happy more often?

When do we feel bad? Almost always because of an external trigger – circumstances or people. When do we feel good? Almost always because of an internal trigger – something we have done or felt.  If these both statements hold truth, how is it that we feel...

What do you value the most?

How do we truly know what is it that we value?  The thing that is most important to us. Whether in our relationships. Whether in our work. Whether at our company. It is the thing we measure frantically. If we measure sales, as against customer success, then that is...

Regret

There is a way to avoid failures and rejections altogether. By not trying in the first place. The result: no failure, no rejection.  And lifelong regret. Failure is an answer. Rejection is an answer. Regret is a lifelong question you will never have an answer...

Do we love ourselves?

If we truly love someone, we would never call them a failure. No matter how they had tanked at something they were enthusiastic about. We would rather appreciate them for the relentless effort they made, how they overcame their fears, and the fact that they shipped...

Unable to move on?

“I want to move on. Want to forgive them. However, I don’t want them back in my life. Is that possible?” After career advice, this is the most frequently asked question I get. Most people believe if they forgive someone, it is also permission for them to come back in...