People get most upset when you tell them the true things that they wish are false.
It is perhaps your fault.
You could have done better.
Maybe you could be more understanding.
In a problem, there is often more than one person involved. However, if one person could have acted different, things would have been different. Certainly for the better.
But to own that different thing requires being okay with the truth that we wish was false.
When people are looking for more lies to cover up their lies and you tell them the truth, they don’t like it.
Truth never gets loved. Because it stands alone.