Half of our problems are not being able to distinguish between what we should do, want to do and have to do.
I should become an engineer/CA/lawyer/doctor
I want to become an engineer/CA/lawyer/doctor
I have to become an engineer/CA/lawyer/doctor
I should = what we think the world expects from us
I want = what we expect from our ourselves
I have = there is no choice between these two!
Should is a societal norm.
Want is the call of the heart.
Have to is the action out of obligation.
Awareness is having the wisdom to know the difference between the three.
Do you want to do your job or do you have to do your job?
Do you want to live with your parents or should you live with your parents?
Taking action is the next step.
The first one is knowing the real problem.