When something doesn’t go the way we wanted it to, our brain goes into default mode of imagining the worst case scenario.
They’re not acting the way they should.
They don’t like me.
They must think I am useless.
But what if this imagined world is just that – imagined?
How would we ever see it differently from reality?
Before you assume, try this crazy thing: Ask!
Yes, when something doesn’t go the way the we want it to be, we create our own imaginative world of ifs and buts. But imaginative is what it is!
And asking for help, may or may not be that but some of us carry certain pressure when it comes to asking. Whether it’s asking a question, or help!
So yes, this message goes out a long way and everyone eventually evolves and cross that barrier in their own pace.