Why is it so hard to say no?

We don’t want people to reject us, and so we find it difficult to reject people.Saying no becomes insanely hard. We think if we say no, people will leave us.We will hurt the other person.People will think poorly of us. When we say no, we say no to a request. Not to...

You aren’t the only one!

Today’s generation is under immense pressure.It’s the pressure of self-doubt more than anything else.This self-doubt is led by the view that everyone else, except them, has it figured out. People seem to be eating the nicest looking food.Wearing the nicest looking...

What we were not taught…

We are taught to admire the extraordinary.To be inspired by them.To want to become them. But… We are raised to become ordinary.To follow a template.To take the path already taken. To admire is easy. To get inspired is easy. To become extraordinary is not easy....

Give your relationships time

“It’s okay to work long hours. I will make my parents happy with the money I make.”This was one of the biggest mistakes I made, when I was younger. I thought I would send them on vacations.Buy them new things.Make their life comfortable. Pamper them so much, for all...

You are simply you!

If I could go back in time, I would tell my 20-year old self this: This decade is when you will be judged the most. Your college.Your job.Your car.Your phone.Your clothes.Your choices. Here’s the thing:People judge you because they want to feel good about themselves....