Positive vs. toxic job

5 signs of a job worth staying in: 1. You are respected for who you are.2. There is acknowledgment of what you do.3. You are rewarded for how well you do it.4. There is growth while you do it.5. You are mentored when you lose track. 1 sign of a toxic job: You dread...

How strong are we truly within?

“Was it okay?Did you like what I said?Do I look good?Do you love me?” Of all the needs that we have, the need for validation always makes us weak. Waiting for someone else to tell us that we are right.Asking people to be our cheerleaders, because we can’t be our...

A question that can change the course of your life

Imagine there is a movie of your life and you are the main character. Ask yourself — when people are watching the movie of your life, what will they keep hoping for you to do in your life? What would they hope, beg, scream, plead for you to do right now in this...

When conversations get hard

If there is a difficult conversation in the relationship and the person in front of you becomes defensive, say these things to give them assurance: “I am sharing this with you because I care about us. I don’t want to attack you. I know it may not seem like it, but I...

“If you don’t ask, the answer is always no.”

Ever thought of asking for something on social media AND actually getting it? I was scrolling on Twitter one day, when I came across this Tweet:“I just need someone to take me to a bookstore and pay my bill.” I am all in favour of having no budget for books and...