Problem solving

As humans, leaders and wise humans, we love to solve problems for others. It makes us feel better, and we believe that it would make them feel better as well. Except, that it doesn’t. Smart people suffer from a problem called The Curse of Intelligence. They want to...

A comfort worth seeking

Comfort is a trap.It’s worth sacrificing – for your happiness and for your growth.It sadly seduces us into believing that we don’t need to try. However, one comfort is worth always living with: Comfort in your own company. The world is designed to tell us to...

I’ll be happy when…

I’ll be happy when I find my partner.I’ll be happy when my parents understand me.I’ll be happy when my efforts are applauded. I’ll be happy “when”… When we attach a “when” to happiness, we make it conditional. Someone else has to take the responsibility to do...

Give your relationships time

“It’s okay to work long hours. I will make my parents happy with the money I make.”This was one of the biggest mistakes I made, when I was younger. I thought I would send them on vacations.Buy them new things.Make their life comfortable. Pamper them so much, for all...

Are we cultivating liars?

Remember the time you did something wrong as a kid?And instead of lying about it, you decide to own up and tell your parents about it? However you got scolded, instead of being appreciated for speaking your truth That becomes your worldview.That is how you get to...