Remember the time you did something wrong, as a kid?
And instead of lying about it, you decide to own it up and tell your parents about it?
However you got scolded, instead of being appreciated for speaking your truth.

And that becomes your worldview.
That is how you get to understand how the world works.

Are we doing the exact same thing with people around us?

By not appreciating someone for their vulnerability and truth, all we do is cultivate liars.