Is it okay to fire your friends?

Our energy gets drained.Enthusiasm lowers each time.There is no feeling of being cared for. These are the experiences we have with some of our friends. However, we were not born into those relationships. We chose them.Since we chose them, we can also choose to get out...

How (not) to change the world

You are irritated by the behaviour of others.It frustrates you..And they don’t even realise it. So to teach them a lesson, you do the same thing to them.Only, that it does not change them.They do not see their fault through your actions.There now remains no difference...

Who should you spend your time with

We are drawn towards people that have the same points of view as us.They make us feel comfortable.They make us feel safe.Our worldviews, our belief systems, our values are held intact. However, they don’t make us grow.They simply validate our existing cocoon of...

Did someone else hurt you?

Someone spoke disrespectfully.They were rude and mean.More so, they didn’t even realise what they did. And we felt hurt.Not just when they said what they said.But repeatedly after that, thinking of it. However, they only said it once.The playing of that audio and...

Unable to reach your goals?

You’ve been trying too hard.Days, weeks, and months – relentlessly.Still you’re not getting the results you want. Sounds familiar?Is every repeated effort of yours a replica of the last effort? What if you tried different things this time? Not getting results doesn’t...