When do people get upset?

People get most upset when you tell them the true things that they wish are false. It is perhaps your fault.You could have done better.Maybe you could be more understanding. In a problem, there is often more than one person involved. However, if one person could have...

Who is giving that advice?

‘Oh, you are now going to tell me what to do? Have you looked at yourself?’ The biggest mistake people make is to reject the right advice because it comes from someone who didn’t take the advice themselves. Ever saw someone giving advice who themselves did not follow...

Best way to be a good listener

Best way to become a good listener? In a conversation, don’t speak unless asked to. You cannot be a good listener and speak the most in a conversation.Only when you decide to speak when asked to, do you listen to everything that is not even said. The one who listens,...

Desire

The desire to get rid of desires is also a desire. The real desire is to get to a place of not having the desire to get rid of desires.

How to have people NOT make fun of you

The best way to make sure people don’t make fun of you, is you stepping up to make fun of yourself. The best way for people to take you seriously is you not taking yourself seriously. There is depth in humour.That comes out when we don’t dwell in the...