For those who hate their jobs, nights and weekends could be used for either of the two purposes:

  1. To party and put a mask on your problems
  2. Work hard towards your passion, while you have the financial cushion to pay your bills.

You don’t lack time. You lack priorities.
You don’t despise hard work. You simply prefer to work hard on what you hate versus what you love.
You are not a loser. You are simply scared of losing the fake persona which makes you have FOMO, and lose yourself daily.