A friend of yours got married at “the right time”.
Another one got settled abroad.
The neighbour spends weekends relaxing and weekdays grinding.
The world is out there chasing the obvious things.
Settle down quickly.
However, if you chase what everyone else is chasing, you will end up with what everyone else does.
Chasing something that does not excite us leaves us with a life that does not excite us.
Chasing something because there is no other option visible leaves us with no other options visible.
The obvious way to beat the resistance is to resist the obvious.
How will we ever know what we could do if we are always entangled with what the world does?