I’ll be happy when I find my partner.
I’ll be happy when my parents understand me.
I’ll be happy when my efforts are applauded.
I’ll be happy “when”…
When we attach a “when” to happiness, we make it conditional.
Someone else has to take the responsibility to do something that will make us happy.
That’s a huge onus to place on those who aren’t even aware they are carrying a heavy load.
The safer and more convenient option is to own our happiness.
To be able to control our factors and definition of happiness.
To be happy alone.
Happiness in relationships is not contingent.
Happiness is a relationship with ourselves.
When we have that relationship right, we become happier in all other relationships.