Ever has this situation where you were extremely happy and content with your situation UNTIL you came across someone else who was better off, with similar attributes as yours?
And this made you feel sad and shitty about your state?
While your grass was green all through
The existence of supposedly greener grass disturbed you
Make a subtle distinction there, that might help
Did the opposite side of the grass always exist and you were simply made aware of it?
Did the opposite side of the grass come up after you?
If it’s an awareness problem – you are fighting your own self.
Not the grass