Gossip ain’t good. We know it. We still gossip. Not just out of habit, rather because it makes us believe we are doing nothing wrong. It’s the other person that needs to change.

This self validation is addictive especially since it doesn’t involve responsibility.

If we take responsibility instead, we’ll have to abandon the comfort zone.
That might mean failing a lot.
However, whenever we succeed we will never fail to amaze ourselves.

Commentary will be easier than playing on the ground.
But each time we do play, we surprise ourselves of how much better we are capable of.